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80 year old undergoes gender confirmation surgery at Wrexham hospital

10 Mar 2023 4 minute read
Isobel Jeffery first began transitioning in 2021 at the age of 79 (Photo: Spire Hospital/Mandy Jones)

A former firefighter “trapped in the wrong body” has undergone gender confirmation surgery at the age of 80 at a Wrexham hospital.

Devout churchgoer Isobel Jeffery, who began transitioning to female in October 2021 at the age of 79 after living her life as a woman for six years, says it has enabled her to finally find peace.

Having begun hormone therapy a year ago, Isobel had the three hour procedure under general anesthetic at Spire Yale Hospital in Wrexhamin in January.

Isobel said: “I cannot tell you how much it has meant to me. The peace, the calm and the contentment that has been brought over me.”

Isobel received full support from her wife of almost 60 years and said she wanted to give hope to other trans people in their twilight years that it’s never too late to transition.

Isobel Jeffery who has recently undergone male-to-female gender confirmation surgery pictured with wife Margaret. Picture Mandy Jones

Changing attitudes

She said: “So many people ask why I left it so long but around 10 to 15 years ago, it was becoming more accepted.

“The changing attitudes in society gave me more confidence to be who I am.

“It’s not to be undertaken lightly, of course, but I am proof that you’re never too old.”

With only three hospitals in the UK providing gender affirming surgery on the NHS (two in London and one in Brighton) – and waiting times of more than five years – Isobel decided to use redundancy money she had put aside when she was 50 for private treatment in Wrexham.

Surgeon, Dr Seipp carried out the procedure for Isobel and decribed her story as both “touching” and “emotional”.

Liberal

He said: “The majority of patients are in their 20s or 30s but quite a few patients wish to complete their transition with gender affirming surgery in their 50s or 60s.

“This is really a story about what it means to be transgender. We are living in a more liberal society now compared to a time when people like Isobel were growing up.

“It has taken Isobel almost eight decades to get to the point where she mustered up the courage to express and reveal her real identity.”

Isobel grew up as a boy called Andrew Jeffery, alongside four brothers and a sister and now lives in Cheshire.

Isolbel said: “As a young child, I always played with my sister and her dolls and pushed her pram. Seventy years ago, boys didn’t push dolls’ prams around. It was already starting to show then in hindsight.”

“I would’ve been bullied badly had I not had a twin brother who stuck up for me. I didn’t understand it, I just seemed to feel different.

“I was dressing up in women’s clothing probably from around 10 or 12. I learned to hide it and was the quiet child at the back normally.”

Isobel in her truck driving days

“Cruel”

For the next 40 years, Isobel took on a variety of ‘physical’ jobs to convince the outside world of her masculinity.

She said: “I sailed around the world out of Liverpool or London with the merchant navy and did two 18-month voyages.

“When I came back, I became a firefighter for Bristol City Fire Service as it was known then.

“Then I went into heavy goods driving and oversized loads. I did everything I could to ‘prove’ I was a man with ‘manly’ jobs but all the time I had a niggling feeling in the back of my mind.

Isobel’s surgeon at the Wrexham hospital said the wait for trans surgery is “cruel” and said it’s even more distressing for someone of Isobel’s age.

Isobel added: “There are sadly lot of unhappy transpeople out there and I feel so lucky to have finally found happiness.”


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Cathy Jones
Cathy Jones
11 months ago

You see! Its NEVER too late to live your truth, there is no deadline for being you. This story has made me cry with joy because I am a transwoman, but if you are a cis-gendered person this story should also bring you joy, this lady proves that age is no barrier to being who you are inside, that person so many of us keep trapped away for whatever reasons. Are the years passing you by? Have you been keeping something inside? It doesn’t have to be to do with gender or sexuality it can be a hidden desire, a… Read more »

Joel
Joel
11 months ago
Reply to  Cathy Jones

Beautifully said, Cathy!

Ed Jones
Ed Jones
11 months ago

All the best Isobel, carpe diem.

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